gossipy and judgmental while often trying to mask it behind a friendly face
Of course, this can never be found in New England, no, especially not in a snob town..
I respect your experience, though, and see where you're coming from.
It's funny you mentioned you're from up north. My wife is from New York and I'm from Florida , although I wouldn't say the part I'm from is the south. If you want to see some shit go and drive through the heart of Florida, you're gonna see some wild Florida man shit there.
Having lived in Florida, New York (current), the Midwest (grew up there), Souther California (LA), and the Pacific North West, it's amazing how different the cultures are in this way. I'll totally back up your florida statement. Also the only group of people, on this topic, I couldn't stand were the LA folk. Fake nice to your face, genuine evil behind your back. Could not stand it at all and was so happy to get out.
I've lived in CT (most of my life), Burbank CA, Philly, Charlotte, and Atlanta, with extensive family in Florida.
I can vouch for almost everything said here (the only thing that differs, maybe, is Florida, since there are so many transplants, it depends where you are). I too didn't like southern California.