Okay, here's the final word on the issue: Mindflux, your explanation about what you meant makes perfect sense. And I think nightmare_cinema, judging from her response, gets what you meant by your statement now that you have explained it. But the other side of the coin is that the way you worded it was offensive, and you are not getting that. You may not have meant it that way, but it definitely came across as offense, even though you may not have meant to have done anything wrong. And the quickest way to remedy a situation like that is an acknowledgement rather than defending yourself and throwing up the "I didn't do anything wrong!" defense. Much easier to just say something like, "I see how you took what I said, and I apologize for the way it came across and didn't mean to have offended you," and then just move on. That's what I would recommend. But let's just leave it at that. Please do not further derail the thread with these pointless arguments about what was said and what was intended, okay?
And for what it's worth, @ nightmare_cinema: Personally, I don't think your positive reaction to SX's live show has anything to do with being attracted to the band. But I do have a thought. See, I think the common thread is actually: sandwiches. Michael Romeo has obviously eaten his fair share of them. And you, as a woman, are obviously good at making them for your man. So, please, go fix us all some sammiches. kthx.