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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #280 on: April 06, 2011, 08:06:37 PM »
My dream girl...cute...lovely...smart...plus...amazing...you think so?...oh yes...she...stunning...kindly...love it! Hug her...when...sleeping...warm and cuddly...spectacular...ravishing...



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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #281 on: April 06, 2011, 08:13:57 PM »
My dream girl...cute...lovely...smart...plus...amazing...you think so?...oh yes...she...stunning...kindly...love it! Hug her...when...sleeping...warm and cuddly...spectacular...ravishing...


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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #282 on: April 06, 2011, 08:24:29 PM »
My dream girl...cute...lovely...smart...plus...amazing...you think so?...oh yes...she...stunning...kindly...love it! Hug her...when...sleeping...warm and cuddly...spectacular...ravishing...

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #283 on: April 06, 2011, 08:25:21 PM »
My dream girl...cute...lovely...smart...plus...amazing...you think so?...oh yes...she...stunning...kindly...love it! Hug her...when...sleeping...warm and cuddly...spectacular...ravishing...



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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #284 on: April 06, 2011, 08:27:55 PM »
I wonder what the response would be if the question was reversed to what attracts girls to a guy.

Oh wait, I know, every answer would be CONFIDENCE


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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #285 on: April 06, 2011, 08:29:57 PM »
...boobs.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #286 on: April 06, 2011, 08:31:34 PM »
To all the people creeped out by BrotherH's post... watch this video, about 2 minutes in.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJQyLURfW7c&feature=channel_video_title

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #287 on: April 06, 2011, 08:33:31 PM »
To all the people creeped out by BrotherH's post... watch this video, about 2 minutes in.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJQyLURfW7c&feature=channel_video_title

Quoting video games will not get you laid. :lol
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #288 on: April 06, 2011, 08:37:05 PM »
My dream girl...cute...lovely...smart...plus...amazing...you think so?...oh yes...she...stunning...kindly...love it! Hug her...when...sleeping...warm and cuddly...spectacular...ravishing...
:lol is it sad to have gotten that reference immediately upon reading his post?
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #289 on: April 06, 2011, 10:55:45 PM »
Nice use of that reference, Brother. :lol
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #291 on: April 07, 2011, 06:05:21 AM »
My dream girl...cute...lovely...smart...plus...amazing...you think so?...oh yes...she...stunning...kindly...love it! Hug her...when...sleeping...warm and cuddly...spectacular...ravishing...


Wow. My thoughs exactly.

...boobs.
And that.

And also a musical chick.

Never going to happen.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #292 on: April 07, 2011, 07:54:00 AM »
Damn, I totally forgot about the musical angle.  My wife and three of my old girlfriends are violinists.  Another of my exes plays the flute (and yes, she played the skin flute, ha ha).  It's probably a coincidence, but the relationships with exes who weren't musicians did not last nearly as long.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #293 on: April 07, 2011, 09:27:57 PM »
For me personality comes first.  And general attracted-ness.  Which does not mean looks.  Looks are a factor, like I don't want to date someone who is butt-ugly, but what is considered so-so is usually amazing to me because personality affects the way I look at people.  Seriously, something in my mind makes me see nice people as attractive and mean people as not.  I'm like Shallow Hal or some shit.
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #294 on: April 07, 2011, 09:32:09 PM »
My dream girl...cute...lovely...smart...plus...amazing...you think so?...oh yes...she...stunning...kindly...love it! Hug her...when...sleeping...warm and cuddly...spectacular...ravishing...


Wow. My thoughs exactly.

...boobs.
And that.

And also a musical chick.

Never going to happen.


Y not?

Damn, I totally forgot about the musical angle.

I read that as "music angel", which I took as "Angel of Music" which made me happy, but now I am disappoint.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #295 on: April 07, 2011, 10:48:54 PM »
Rina, you are definitely an angel of music.  Girls like you almost make me wish I was 18 again. 

Almost.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #296 on: April 08, 2011, 01:48:59 AM »
Lol. It might happen. I'm going to keep my hopes up.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #297 on: January 16, 2014, 06:56:13 AM »
Well, for me personally I prefer a strong, independent, self-motivated, intelligent woman that has the same sense of humor as I do. This is the foundation for any relationship I would participate in. I am also a tasteless, sarcastic, eccentric weirdo and its very rare to come across women that can deal with that.

I've had girlfriends in the past that I've had to explain everything to. I couldn't even talk normally, because I would get that deer in the headlights response. So being on the same page is extremely important.

What comes 2nd is at least some form of physical attractiveness. In my older years, I've learned to value personality way more than looks. Looks fade over time, personality lasts forever. But you have to have both. One without the other isn't going to work and it breaks down 60/40 for me, Personality/looks.

Now that's just me and my interests. The whole male population in general is a different story all together. Most guys I've met seem to lose there shit for any set of tits and ass to come anywhere near them, no matter how slutty, how drunk or how pathetic the girl is, they just want to get laid. ultimately, that line of thinking means nothing to me.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #298 on: January 16, 2014, 07:18:39 AM »
The fervent aura of a mild perfume, complemented by the soft glimmer from telling eyes waiting to reel you in.  A smile that could cure any disease and bring the most unsubmissive man to his knees.  That faint smell of carnal indulgence and the slow but commanding movement of her hips, swaying and playing through the mind like an unending game of cat and mouse. 

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #299 on: January 16, 2014, 07:19:51 AM »
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #300 on: January 16, 2014, 08:22:40 AM »
Personality > looks, but I think any guy would be lying if he said that good-looking girls don't demand more attention from him when he first meets them, though that can immediately change if the girl turns out to be a bitch.

Above all, though, I think personality typically rules over looks, whether or not the guys consciously sense it.

That pretty much covers it.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #301 on: January 16, 2014, 08:36:10 AM »
To all the people creeped out by BrotherH's post... watch this video, about 2 minutes in.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJQyLURfW7c&feature=channel_video_title

Quoting video games will not get you laid. :lol

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #302 on: January 16, 2014, 09:01:35 AM »
God this thread reads like a "who's who" of people I miss.
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #304 on: January 16, 2014, 10:54:33 AM »
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #305 on: January 16, 2014, 10:55:50 AM »
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #306 on: January 16, 2014, 11:01:47 AM »
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #307 on: January 16, 2014, 11:25:04 AM »
Damn, I totally forgot about the musical angle. 
Totally, my chick needs to be as nutty about music, and by music I mean metal as I am... Music is the thing that gets me up in the morning and going all day. If she cant understand it. We are not going to last.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #308 on: January 16, 2014, 11:30:21 AM »
Love of music is absolutely and non-negotiably key.  It doesn't even have to be MY favorite...just open-minded and maybe have some bands/genres I can be introduced to.
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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #309 on: January 16, 2014, 11:58:54 AM »
God this thread reads like a "who's who" of people I miss.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #310 on: January 16, 2014, 12:36:50 PM »
Love of music is absolutely and non-negotiably key.  It doesn't even have to be MY favorite...just open-minded and maybe have some bands/genres I can be introduced to.
I dunno. My daughter listens to some of the worst shit I've ever heard. How its even called music is beyond me. S'pose that's a sign of getting old. If my GF was into that, I dunno if I'd be able to respect her.  :lol

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #311 on: January 16, 2014, 12:40:40 PM »
:lol What would you do if you fell in love with a girl who loved listening to Justin Bieber every morning to get ready ?! Or Scooter or some shit.

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #312 on: January 16, 2014, 12:46:09 PM »
In that case, we fall back to considering how hot she is.

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« Reply #313 on: January 16, 2014, 01:06:35 PM »
:lol What would you do if you fell in love with a girl who loved listening to Justin Bieber every morning to get ready ?! Or Scooter or some shit.
I'm pretty sure that would stop me from 'falling in love' with her... Or the constant making fun of her for shitty music would cause her to leave... Either way, its a win win...

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Re: What attracts guys to a girl?
« Reply #314 on: January 16, 2014, 01:09:38 PM »
God this thread reads like a "who's who" of people I miss.

OMG THIS! This thread has more ghosts than a Steven Wilson album.

I guess this thread was during my busy grad school days when I wasn't posting so I missed it, but there is some really interesting and ridiculous stuff in here.

A few points:
-Anyone who says there is no physical element is lying or blind. Of course looks are going to draw you to somebody, but personality usually determines the nature/length of the encounter with said person.
Of course I'm more likely to pursue a guy I'm physically attracted to, but if he turns out to be a dick I won't stick around (well, maybe for a little fun :p).
-Many of the men (and women) I've been into, I wasn't initially attracted to, but they grew on me when I got to know them.
-Obesity is not healthy, but that doesn't mean fat women can't be beautiful and should be lectured on losing weight  :\... Trust me, they already know they're fat. God forbid they get some lovin', too.
-On that note, when it comes to a "type" I don't REALLY have one. I've been with/attracted to allll types of men and women. In general I've leaned towards brown hair/eyes on both, tall guys and curvier women, but I really don't discriminate.

Also:
I miss jackie in this thread

I miss Jackie in every thread, in the laughter of every child, in the gentle caress of the breeze upon a grove of flowers, in the fizzy sort of plopping sound of beer spilt onto a hardwood floor, in the dissertation of every book that goes awry, and in that feeling that you get when you think you're falling out of bed but then you jolt yourself awake and discover that you're in the middle of the bed and not even close to any of the edges, and whoa, wasn't that weird? It's been, like, a year since that last happened.

Anyway, what were we talking about?

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