I'm sorry if I offend any females by making this thread directed towards men only, but I've noticed that most females are attracted to a man more by their personality than looks/women aren't as picky about physicality (I understand that this is not always true, however).
The reason I am so curious is that, a few days ago, a guy friend of mine was saying how he hates that girls feel that they have to be "skinny" to be pretty. "I like girls with some meat on them!" he said, shaking his head.
He then launched into a rant, saying that society is ruining beauty: telling girls with small boobs to either slim down or get plastic surgery, telling heavier girls to diet and wear loose clothing, and generally just setting "rules" for attractiveness. "It's so hard to find a genuinely happy, confident girl because of all that shit," he said, "and that's what makes them most attractive."
The reasons this hit me so hard are
A. He's known for being extremely--but not cruelly--honest
B. He's a girl's dream: good-looking (he looks just like Prince), smart, and a musical prodigy (including singing), so
C. he could really get any girl he wanted. He is currently dating a girl who is not ugly, but not very attractive, but has the most enthusiastic, loving personality ever and he loves her very much.
This gave me a lot of hope and made me wonder; are all the messages girls get from society really wrong? (Don't worry about offending me if you're not like my friend; I want honesty here and that's the 1st time I had heard that.)
tl;dr: A handsome, talented guy friend of mine (who could get any girl) is going out with an average-looking girl but values inside qualities over everything in a partner. What about you?