20 years on, and I'm still not comfortable with the pat, concise, "He wasn't fired, he quit" summary. It was (and in my mind, still is) far more complex than that. It's like saying "my marriage ended because my wife cheated". Yeah, that was a significant part, but it's FAR more complex than that, and only the ex and I know what really happened, including the dynamics, the emotions, the back-and-forth, etc.