The Non-Lonely Hearts Club

[PlaysLikeMyung]

I friend requested his pseudo account. Lulz will be had

[antigoon]

What's his pseudo account?

[Nick]

ITT Super Dude over reacts about the dangers of the internet, we beat the dead horse about something that happened days ago, we chat, and we definitely do not keep the thread on topic.

[lateralus88]

Implying DTF ever stays on topic.

[PlaysLikeMyung]

>Implying Kevin Moore

[AcidLameLTE]

What's his pseudo account?

His Facebook account. He's given himself the fake name "Bob Doe". He was probably trying to go for "Bob Dole" but failed.

[Super Dude]

John Doe?

[antigoon]

Either way, he failed

[Super Dude]

Slowbro?

[True Death of Life]

QUESTION

What's the difference between "love" as in "I love you"

and

"In love" as in "I'm in love with you"?

[setrataeso]

QUESTION

What's the difference between "love" as in "I love you"

and

"In love" as in "I'm in love with you"?

You can be "in love" with one person.
You can love everyone.

[lateralus88]

I asked this question back several months ago. Everyone has their own definition of love. But usually, "I love you" is more of a...friendship sort of thing, I suppose? It isn't in the deep sense where you would do anything for this person, and they are the most important thing in the world.

Being in love, is exactly that. This person is by far the most important person in your life, you put them up on a pedestal, and you will do whatever you possibly can to make sure that pedestal stays nice and tidy.

Others might and will disagree with that I'm sure, but that's always how I've looked at it.

Side note: As discovered from recent events, being in love is a two way street. One can feel they are deeply in love, while the other just loves them as a friend and doesn't want to see them get hurt. That shit sucks when it doesn't work out properly. Be careful when it comes to expressing love towards someone.

QUESTION

What's the difference between "love" as in "I love you"

and

"In love" as in "I'm in love with you"?

You can be "in love" with one person.
You can love everyone.

Also this. Definitely.

[PlaysLikeMyung]

Being in love with someone consumes every fiber of your being. You feel it non stop, and it will never relent. Your whole life revolves around pleasing that person.





Its a fucking curse

[73109]

^^^I think that goes by a different name.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

[Super Dude]

Yeah, I agreed with you there up until the part where you said it was a curse.  It's only a curse if it's non-reciprocal.  But otherwise, yeah, limerence (a.k.a infatuation) can be a real bitch.  I'm going to therapy for a limerence incident that I believed I'd gotten over almost five years ago.

[True Death of Life]

That sucks, SD.

I can see where you're coming from PLM, but I mostly just agree with the first part.

I am just amazed that my parent's marriage has worked and stuff, you know? They're polar opposites, but have been married for 22 years.

Do you think they are still "in love" or do they just "love" each other now?

[PlaysLikeMyung]

^^^I think that goes by a different name.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

I know what infatuation is, because I've gone through it. This is different. For over a year I've felt this way, and no matter what I do to try and get over her, I can't. It's almost destroyed me this year

[antigoon]

I saw Hot Tub Time Machine with Ms. Goon over the weekend.

lol!

[emindead]

*unpacks*

[True Death of Life]

WHAT

CONGRATS 

[emindead]

THANKS!

Ultimately, I've been feeling like this:

[True Death of Life]

As you should.


Now finish unpacking and start talking.

[lonestar]

QUESTION

What's the difference between "love" as in "I love you"

and

"In love" as in "I'm in love with you"?

You can be "in love" with one person.
You can love everyone.

Um, I think that is the best statement I have read on this forum.  Very well said.

[setrataeso]

QUESTION

What's the difference between "love" as in "I love you"

and

"In love" as in "I'm in love with you"?

You can be "in love" with one person.
You can love everyone.

Um, I think that is the best statement I have read on this forum.  Very well said.

Thanks.

[73109]

So...hi not lonely people!!!

Still kickin'.

[setrataeso]

I guess so.
Had a philosophical conversation with some new friends of mine last night.
Made me realize Im awesome.

[Space Invader]

I guess so.
Had a philosophical conversation with some new friends of mine last night.
Made me realize Im awesome.

Just wait until I get back from university. I'll philosophize your ear off.

[setrataeso]

I guess so.
Had a philosophical conversation with some new friends of mine last night.
Made me realize Im awesome.

Just wait until I get back from university. I'll philosophize your ear off.

Yeah, we had some good chats in the past.
Are you on WPAPU tonight?

[Space Invader]

I guess so.
Had a philosophical conversation with some new friends of mine last night.
Made me realize Im awesome.

Just wait until I get back from university. I'll philosophize your ear off.

Yeah, we had some good chats in the past.
Are you on WPAPU tonight?

I guess.
School has taught me some nice philosophy. History FTW.

[setrataeso]

I guess so.
Had a philosophical conversation with some new friends of mine last night.
Made me realize Im awesome.

Just wait until I get back from university. I'll philosophize your ear off.

Yeah, we had some good chats in the past.
Are you on WPAPU tonight?

I guess.
School has taught me some nice philosophy. History FTW.

Tune in now. Im already there.

[ZachyDou]

Oh HAI.

[setrataeso]

Oh HAI.

WAAAAHHHH?

[73109]

Oh HAI.

Oh HAI!!!!

OH HAI!!!!

[ZachyDou]

Oh HAI.

WAAAAHHHH?

Uh... Yea. Giddy up.

[True Death of Life]

Oh HAI.

WAAAAHHHH?

Uh... Yea. Giddy up.

TALK.