Here's the thing. If there was any indication she was cool, and wanted those things. Okay, she wants to get married, whatever.
But she explicitly says she has no friends. So how much life experience does she really have. She says she wants a virgin husband, but my question is - has she ever even had a chance to have sex?
It's not that she wants a certain thing out of life. It's that she wants a husband who doesn't cast life on her own failure and being a shut-in.