I tried to go to Downward spiral first, but it was just too much. It was like trying to hold fire in my hands. Its so full of rage and despair that I was almost scared of it. Its now one of my favorite albums, but I only break it out when I need to.
The Fragile is a much more somber and introspective album imo. Its born of a man further along in life and more reflective. Its passionate and beautiful, but hopeful at the same time. I've always found it very uplifting.