Yeah, that's all me too (except for the ADTOE part; it's good, but it doesn't eclipse the classic years for me).
It's definitely take some pretty serious (well, not
that serious) soul-searching on my part to finally admit that to myself.
How could anything be better than I&W??? It's their freaking genre-defining sophomore release!
Don't get me wrong...I have nothing but love for I&W. The album needs no further justification here.
But, for me, song for song, ADTOE 'slightly' edges it out. Obviously, the albums share a similar template, but I feel like ADTOE actually improved upon some of the heavily-borrowed groundwork laid by I&W.
I 'slightly' prefer "On the Backs of Angels" to "Pull Me Under"
I 'slightly' prefer "Outcry" to "Metropolis"
I more than slightly prefer "Breaking All Illusions" to "Learning to Live"
I more than slightly prefer "This is the Life" to any of the I&W ballads
So, yeah, the albums are neck and neck, but it is what it is.
Fortunately, I don't need to choose!