@ HoSo....some of what I say will sound like kind of a rebuke to what you posted, but it's only a coincidence. I've been mulling some thoughts since the OP went up, and I'm just sitting down now to post them. You just so happened to post some counterpoints to what I was about to post.
First off, to the OP...I swear this thread is a WildRanger creation. Ape, you're new here, and welcome my friend, but WildRanger is a well known former member who created a number of threads by making a statement as some sort of fact by asking a question.
DT IS a progressive rock band. Sure. there's layers and nuances to what they do. Yes. But people need to get over themselves if they think because of that, they are a more critical or analyzing fandom.
Every band's hardcore fans treat their favorite bands the same way.
A lot of you guys don't remember when you had to go buy concert tickets before computers. You'd sleep out for the big shows or at the very least, get there real early. Sometimes, the experience was better than the concert. Lots of talking with other big fans of whatever bands.
You could be in line for AC/DC tickets, and the conversations then are the same we have now. "They were great until Flick Of The Switch. That album blows", and "Fly On The Wall sounds like shit."
These were the music forums before there were actual music forums.
How do we think it was when Rush went synth? Lots of debate, but these were conversations had in person by big fans, or while tailgating at a show.
Those conversations were no different or "less deep" than what goes on here.
Someone mentioned that when they play PMU, the crowd goes crazy. Sure, it's their most popular song, but for those of us that watch their every move, it's please not again.
Sure some hardcore DT fans are musicians. Doesn't make them any more engaged as fans. Again..using my AC/DC example, how many people wanted to be in a band or learned an instrument after hearing them? The answer...lots!
Someone also said it's because we're online that we have strong opinions. I disagree. If you asked me in 1982 about the new Rush album, I would've told you it sucked donkey balls. And I loved Rush when Signals came out. These are conversations we had amongst friends, and they are not because we are on the internet. Not even close. We went to our friends' houses and listened together and picked whatever we were listening to apart if we saw fit.
One thing that do think posting on the internet does negatively is that it is just words, and doesn't take into account the manner in which it was said. I model my posting style as "a couple of guys having a beer talking about music." If I say the new DT album blows to my friend, it comes across much differently in that setting than it does here. If I typed that here, people are like, what's that guy's problem, he's being so negative..
Favoring one album over another, or being ecstatic OR disappointed are normal and there's nothing wrong with a few buddies expressing that. I just think the more hardcore the group of fans are over a certain band, sometimes the discussions can run deep, and that's totally cool. But to think that this is exclusive to Dream Theater is simply not right. EVERY band has their real hardcore fans that dissect everything about them. Yes, even AC/DC.