I'm going to try and be more positive. I admit I did not join with noble intentions. I had heard this place was very negative from another group I'm a part of, and rushed here to defend the band. When I finally got here I found more or less what I expected, lots of criticizing the band going completely off the rails, tons of negativity, and basically the mentality of sportsradio the day after the football team loses.
But since I'm still here, I will try a different approach, or leave altogether. I will not criticize the mods anymore for letting bashing slide and I will not resort to just trolling when things seem hopeless for those who still enjoying liking DT.
What do you mean by this? Judging by your other post about DT's alleged politics, which was chock full of negative stereotypes-- about Jews in particular-- I would say you are on thin ice but just curious as to your intentions.
Hello There,
Looking back, I recognize that my responses may have come across as trolling, and for that, I apologize. It wasn't the right way to handle the situation, and I regret my actions.
In the heat of the moment, while defending the band from criticism, I allowed my emotions to get the best of me. Rather than engaging in a constructive and mature dialogue, I resorted to a less than appropriate approach. I now see that this was a mistake, and I'm committed to learning from it.
Also... I want to stress that I hold the Jewish community in extremely high regard and had no intention of causing offense or implying anything negative. It's crucial to me that this is made clear, and I apologize for any misunderstandings or hurt feelings that may have arisen.
As for the locked thread, I respect the decision made by the moderators, and I won't discuss the specifics, as per their wishes. Moving forward, I aim to approach discussions with more thoughtfulness, empathy, and understanding, ensuring that my words and actions reflect the respect and consideration everyone deserves.
If you'd like to discuss the specifics of the Politics of Dream Theater thread, or anything else from my trolling days, please add it to my inbox.
I'm going to try and be more positive. I admit I did not join with noble intentions. I had heard this place was very negative from another group I'm a part of, and rushed here to defend the band. When I finally got here I found more or less what I expected, lots of criticizing the band going completely off the rails, tons of negativity, and basically the mentality of sportsradio the day after the football team loses.
But since I'm still here, I will try a different approach, or leave altogether. I will not criticize the mods anymore for letting bashing slide and I will not resort to just trolling when things seem hopeless for those who still enjoying liking DT.
You do you, of course; I'd never tell you what to do or not, but if you're interested, and have an open mind, join the fun. I know I've experienced a couple different communities more or less related to the band, and this is BY FAR the most civil, the most intelligent, and the most.... giving, for lack of a better word, of any I've been to. There is at least one, maybe two - we're not going to name names or provide links - that in my not so humble experience, SEVERELY crossed the line (lines?) over the years. I've only once, ever, contemplated notifying someone off-line of activity on-line and it was at one of those sites.
In contrast, here, these are my friends. Not my "internet friends", my FRIENDS. We meet. We break bread. We attend each other's weddings, funerals and other life events. There are people here that I talk to regularly and we haven't mentioned "Dream Theater" in years, save maybe to coordinate concert meetings. Some I don't agree with on all - or many - "issues", but I try to remember that differing opinions aren't character flaws.
I think you'll find what you bring here. If you come in with a negative attitude looking for conflict, you'll find it, because you reap what you sow. If you come in looking for good people that won't always pull punches or tell you what you want to hear, then you'll find that too, and maybe, just maybe, come out with some relationships that will enrich your life.
Yes... I recognize that now. I will try a different approach.