Thanks Bosk for all that. I didn't realize that your area was in employment law. That's interesting.
I would never say these people don't work hard. I see tons of Instacart people in my store. They're usually face down in their phones, going pretty fast through the store, usually being quite rude and basically unobservant to anything else going on.
They'll also let you do their shopping for them,. Fuck that. God forbid you tell them where ONE thing is. They'll then give a y a slideshow of the rest of the order expecting you to show them. Who shops for these people? Have they never been in a store before??
To me, they seem to be working hard to not have a job, if that makes sense. I get out of bed to go to wok because I have to get there by a certain time. If it was left up to me, should I get up now or grab a couple of extra hours more sleep, I'd never get to work.
Well, I can't speak for the people you've interacted with. But to put a couple of things that you mentioned into perspective:
1. Moving fast, head down, into their phones: I'm sure there are plenty out there that are rude, just because there are rude people doing all kinds of stuff. But the majority that I've seen, including my family members, are moving fast, head down, looking at their phones because they're focused on getting the job done quickly because, as I said above, speed and efficiency are the only ways to make it worthwhile. Having been on some trips with them, I can tell you that the app doesn't make it easy, because it frequently lists things in the wrong locations, doesn't necessarily group things by location, etc. So you are looking at your list and simultaneously trying to map out in your head the most efficient way to get all the things you need as quickly and efficiently as possible. It sucks time to grab an item in aisle 3, the next one on aisle 16, and next one on aisle 2, etc. But that is how the app sometimes will list the items. It's a different type of shopping than your casual grocery store stop when you are shopping by yourself. I don't think most of them are rude. They're just intensely focused and trying to move fast.
2. Asking for help: Yeah, I get that that can be an annoyance. Sometimes, people that do this for a job
don't initially have a clue how to shop because they haven't done it much for themselves. Sometimes, they aren't familiar with a store they get sent to for an order. And sometimes, customers will ask for obscure items or items the shopper has just never purchased for themselves and never thought about purchasing, so they have no clue where it might be. (and speaking honestly, there are times when you would think an item would logically be in a particular aisle and it's in a completely unrelated one) Add to that the fact that an item might no longer be stocked so the shopper can't find it, or the app says it is in a particular aisle (depends on the app and the store--sometimes that info is there and sometimes it isn't) when it is in a completely different one. Again, not saying there aren't people who take advantage and want you to tell them their whole list. But on the flip side, there are legit reasons why they might want help. And if they need help with a few items, if they are being efficient, they will grab, say, the 15 items then can find, and then save the 5 they can't until the very end, so that they have a "list" of items they need help with.
3. And as far as working hard to not have a "real job," for many, it's a second (or third) job, or they need a part time job with hours flexibility because they are full time students, or stay at home parents, or whatever. I know someone doing it who was a stay at home mom raising the kids their entire childhood, and now has 2 kids in college. She is trying to help the family by adding to her husband's income to help the college bills, but she has been out of the workforce for 2 decades, so it's hard to get back in and make decent money, and this is a good temporary solution to temporarily earn some cash. People have lots of reasons, and it isn't all hipster millennials who don't want to work (I'm exaggerating and being tongue in cheek with that description).