I really think it has to do with consumerist culture, more than anything.
Every prior generation had the fear of God put in them that, with small exception, committing to godly monogamy and child-rearing was the correct thing to do, even before career and vocational callings.
I'm not saying we've got to run back to religion. But clearly, our new religion of consumerism doesn't really care about kids. As an acolyte of late stage capitalism, your job is to prioritize a career, so you can make money so that you can have a nicer life, and thus greater cultivate your identity by way of consumption choices and kids, never a good financial decision, just get in the way of that.
I'm thinking that, unless we start coming up with some humanistic, broadly accepted reasons why people should have kids, we're just going to continue in this direction. Some real energy needs to be put into discerning why family life is important for the younger generations, and we're never going to see that from our corporate overlords.
I do think we'll see some really wild things if the demographic collapse of the developed world is a serious as some things make it sound. I've got this, perhaps wacky, vision of the next Greta Thunberg, 30 years from now, urging women to become teen moms on the TOK to help abate the human population crisis. I know, I need to lay off the sauce.
This is a good post, and I'm not trying to give you grief about it. Also, I'm really not as misanthropic as I often come across. I do ask questions, though, and one of them has to be whether or not humanity is actually worth propagating if this is what we've amounted to? We are not Gene Roddenberry's future humans, nor are we destined to be. From where I stand we're the same backwards savages we used to be with greater knowledge and nicer toys, which we are not using for the greater good. There are certainly good people out there, but as often as not they seem to be the ones getting nailed to trees, sometimes literally. They are not the future.
Yeah, these are good points, and I only have a few ideas for a response.
First one is just a statistical point. Yes. Most of us suck, and always have. More of us increases the chances that one of our luminaries comes along to help launch us closer to enlightenment.
Second is the idea in the classical philosophical sense of what makes a man good as opposed to a savage. And for some like Confucious and Aristotle, the conclusion on what man's best and most dignified life entails hits close to family life. I haven't read enough about this to say anything more about it.
Third idea is that, yes we suck, but whether it's worth being here is kinda subjective. For example, you may think that it sucks, but if you still think it's worth being here, chances are the next guy will too. I personally figure that life's worth living beyond whenever my familial duties are done for at least as long as I could imagine myself getting out to a show and having a pint in my hand. We, collectively, don't get to make the call when the party ends.
Ahh...The good ol' days when my people were called Savages because we were considered "primitive" by the standards of that culture.
Look, if I wasn't happy with life, I would've offed myself already. But I am not unhappy with my life, it could be better, but also, I am content with where I am at right now. I also can do what I could to better myself and this starts with me acting upon those beneficial thoughts and actions. I can be the change I want to be, or I can mope and continue to wither away as a hopeless human being. Yes, there are problems with the world, but there always has been problems that humans have faced since human creation.
There has never been a time when humans were as connected to each other as today. We humans are able to connect with another human from across the world, and gain insight into their lifestyle and way of life by not having to travel. We humans are able to observe the differences in our human lifestyles and how every culture does not perceive life the same way. Remember, the Christian/Catholic/Bible culture is just one perception for how humans perceive the world. There are many other cultures and perceptions that are vastly ignored when we talk about philosophy, it intrigues me how people don't realize that there are other perceptions to consider when we talk about life.
The perception of children is entirely cultural. How the children are treated and how they are raised is also based on culture. Catholic Children are raised based upon those Catholic cultural values, traditions, beliefs, and morals. My native cultures also view children differently. For us, since our entire culture is Matrilineal, we were more excited and grateful when we had a girl because our clans are based around the mother, and the girls/women are how we continue these clan lines. Now that we have the integration of this "western culture", this entire perception of our culture has changed. Most people today perceive life based around those "western culture" ideologies more so than our own traditional cultural perspectives.
I do agree with you Skeever, it's the Consumerist/Capitalist culture which does have an effect on how humans perceive life. How humans perceive life and the world has entirely changed. The entire world is based on money. Without money, you can't enjoy life. Money does mean happiness, due to this happiness involving the many things that make us humans happy. We need money for shelter, money for food, money for water, and even money for air. All these things were once freely available to us all. All these things were also well taken care of because it's a valuable resource that I place more value in than minerals, such as Gold/Silver.