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Offline jammindude

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Well wishes appreciated
« on: December 27, 2022, 09:20:20 PM »
Just wanted to let everyone know.

Late last week we found out that my new 7month old baby granddaughter has a growth on her liver, and they have no idea what it is. Blood tests seem to indicate it’s not cancer, but they can’t be positive until the results of the scans come back probably tomorrow.

You’ll still see me posting. Anything I can “talk to text” into my phone I can enter on the fly. But most of the countdown threads have been a bit harder to post regularly because I prefer to sit down at a keyboard and write out a paragraph and format my post a certain way, and I just honestly haven’t had the mental energy for it.

Anyway. I want you all to know that every one of you (even the ones who don’t like me…which I honestly hope is an extremely short list) mean very much to me. You are all like a secondary family. 

I’ll post an update when I have one. 

Anyway, if I seem a bit more sparse than usual, I wanted you all to know why.
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #1 on: December 27, 2022, 09:41:30 PM »
When my younger child was still in the womb, they detected an abnormality with one of her kidneys (which I am still amazed it). Took a little time to determine it was cysts. Terrifying to hear there is something wrong with your child (or grandchild), and they cannot give you a solid diagnosis. Wishes coming down 405 to you.
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #2 on: December 28, 2022, 02:34:00 AM »
All my well wishes, thoughts and prayers to you mate that everything works out and it turns out nothing serious.  :heart
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« Reply #3 on: December 28, 2022, 03:21:41 AM »
All my well wishes, thoughts and prayers to you mate that everything works out and it turns out nothing serious.  :heart

This.

Take care jammindude, I've always appreciated your input with everything!

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« Reply #4 on: December 28, 2022, 03:33:07 AM »
I extend my well wishes as well. Fingers crossed it's nothing serious.

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« Reply #5 on: December 28, 2022, 03:35:18 AM »
All my well wishes  :heart
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #6 on: December 28, 2022, 03:52:24 AM »
Well wishes coming from me too...
Hope you get some good news soon

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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #7 on: December 28, 2022, 04:38:29 AM »
Terrifying is probably as good a word as English has to describe how it must feel.  I'm not the praying type, but will put some positivity in the universe for all the Jammin Dudes.
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #8 on: December 28, 2022, 05:43:43 AM »
Terrifying is probably as good a word as English has to describe how it must feel.  I'm not the praying type, but will put some positivity in the universe for all the Jammin Dudes.

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« Reply #9 on: December 28, 2022, 05:47:15 AM »
Sending you my very best wishes, Jammin.

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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #10 on: December 28, 2022, 05:53:57 AM »
I hope all goes well for you, your granddaughter, and everyone else. :)

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« Reply #11 on: December 28, 2022, 05:55:07 AM »
Positive thoughts and viibes coming your way. Can't imagine how difficult it must be to go through that.
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #12 on: December 28, 2022, 06:23:15 AM »
That blows Ben. Fingers crossed for the best. They can do amazing fucking things these days, so the fact that they found anything should be comforting. They're on it, whatever it is.
would have thought the same thing but seeing the OP was TAC i immediately thought Maiden or DT related
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #13 on: December 28, 2022, 06:41:59 AM »
Sorry to hear that.  Prayers.
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #14 on: December 28, 2022, 06:52:49 AM »
Really sorry to hear that jammin, I'll be sending positive thoughts to your granddaughter and family. Keep us posted.

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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #15 on: December 28, 2022, 07:17:10 AM »
Praying for your granddaughter....and your family
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« Reply #16 on: December 28, 2022, 07:58:23 AM »
My heart is with you buddy. Not a prayers guy, but if I were, they'd be heading in your direction.
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« Reply #17 on: December 28, 2022, 08:22:58 AM »
Well wishes to you and your family. Hopefully it is something benign that can be dealt with easily.

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« Reply #18 on: December 28, 2022, 08:26:54 AM »
Positive thoughts on the way.
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« Reply #19 on: December 28, 2022, 08:38:46 AM »
Wishing for positive outcomes, JD.

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« Reply #20 on: December 28, 2022, 08:40:13 AM »
Qapla'
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #21 on: December 28, 2022, 09:56:21 AM »
Nothing but good thoughts from NH.
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« Reply #22 on: December 28, 2022, 12:28:39 PM »
Well wishes Jammin!
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« Reply #23 on: December 28, 2022, 01:07:33 PM »
Best wishes and positive vibes to you and your family. Please keep us posted as you can.

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« Reply #24 on: December 28, 2022, 03:12:44 PM »
All my best wishes to you and yours, buddy.  :heart

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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #25 on: December 28, 2022, 04:55:59 PM »
Damn, that is awful news.  Well wishes indeed, man.  My gosh, I cannot even imagine.  :(

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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #26 on: December 28, 2022, 06:08:45 PM »
We’ve never met (in person), but you can count me as someone who likes and respects you.

Between this place and MP.com, I’ve been reading your posts for damn near 15 years (maybe longer)… I know you better than most of my extended family.

I totally get your desire to post via desktop (I share the preference), and appreciate the update.

Above all else, my thoughts are with you and yours. Devastating news, no doubt, but a silver lining in the lack of conclusiveness?

Either way, as you can tell by this thread, you got tons of support waiting for you on the other end of this url.

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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #27 on: December 28, 2022, 06:26:13 PM »
Sending love, mate. Hoping its nothing too serious.
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« Reply #28 on: December 28, 2022, 07:44:30 PM »
The diagnosis is hepatoblastoma. The most common child liver cancer, and fortunately the most operable.

Right now, the prognosis seems to be good, and confidence is high. But once they pull the C word out, it instantly gets very scary.

Right now I’m just trying to focus on being there emotionally for them. I read her a bedtime story over FaceTime last night, and if possible I might try to fly down over MLK weekend.

Right now, they seem to be pretty confident, so I’m clinging to that.  I can only imagine what my son and daughter in law are going through. But we are talking a bit. It’s hard to have meaningful conversations when you’re 3000 miles away and they are in a hospital room with many distractions. But we’re communicating.

I guess I don’t know what else to say right now. I’m a bit numb.
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #29 on: December 28, 2022, 07:45:37 PM »
I'm so sorry. I know the helpless feeling. Be there for them. It's all you can do.
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Re: Well wishes appreciated
« Reply #30 on: December 28, 2022, 07:55:44 PM »
Damn! Are they doing surgery here in the short term?
would have thought the same thing but seeing the OP was TAC i immediately thought Maiden or DT related
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« Reply #31 on: December 28, 2022, 07:58:26 PM »
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would have thought the same thing but seeing the OP was TAC i immediately thought Maiden or DT related
Winger Theater Forums........or WTF.  ;D
TAC got a higher score than me in the electronic round? Honestly, can I just drop out now? :lol

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« Reply #32 on: December 28, 2022, 08:04:55 PM »
Damn. I guess one positive is that, when you hear a diagnosis, it's always in your favor to hear it is something common, so at least the docs have experience in what they're dealing with and how to approach it.
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« Reply #33 on: December 28, 2022, 08:12:39 PM »
Damn! Are they doing surgery here in the short term?

Don’t know yet
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« Reply #34 on: December 28, 2022, 08:35:31 PM »
Man, I don't have the words.  I just don't.  :( :( :(