Eh, I think Bettman is kind of right though. "Different context, different facts". The punishments to the other two teams that lost draft picks can be correlated to their wrong-doings directly impacting their competitiveness and (ultimately) their position in the draft order. As heinous as it is, this IS an off-ice issue, and there have been enough heads rolling (Bowman, McDonough, MacIsaac, Vincent, Gary, Quenneville) that I think criticism of the draft picks is really just about preference.
And no, we shouldn't be bullying Connor Bedard to jeopardize his future in the name of an arbitrary standard that some of us want to unilaterally impose. There should be no insinuations drawn if Bedard opts to play for the Blackhawks. (Though if all this results in a trade of Bedard to the Bruins, I'm all for that!)