I've watched "Saving Private Ryan" in the theater; I was on a date and the first 45 minutes or so was so intense I sweat through my shirt (embarrassing! Thankfully she was no better). I've put off watching it again, even though it was excellent, just because it was that intense.
That's how I am with The Boy in Striped Pajamas. I'm content never seeing that again, despite it being good.
I came here to say the same thing. That is a movie that is important to see…once. But I don’t know that anyone needs to watch it twice. Nor could I imagine wanting to. But it was an excellent film.
See, I go both ways on this. Like with music, I think there ARE films that are important to see, because we don't live in a box. I think you need to see some of the films of the '50s, '60s and '70s that influenced the things we're seeing today. Just like if you're going to claim "x" band is the greatest band of all time, you need to listen to the bands that infuenced that band, at least once. You need to see The Godfather for the same reason you need to hear Sgt. Pepper.
I've done both with my kids. We had a "Top 100 Movies" poster that we went through when COVID hit, and we watched 2001, and The Shining, and Close Encounters, and a bunch others. I had her listen to Zofo, Sgt. Pepper, Yellow Brick Road, Rumors, and a couple others. It's about expanding horizons and being aware of what's around you.
But I stay away from forcing movies "that have something to say" on my kids.