I don't think most even know what racism is anymore. It's just a buzzword, a catchphrase to most.
Like Tim said, Joe, fuck that guy. Tell him to fuck himself, unfriend him and move on.
Yup, I agree. Most don't even feel that non-white, non-conservative, non-male humans can be racist as well. And it's only white, conservative, males that can exhibit Racism.
Racism is weird though because people think a persons "Race" is based on skin color and that is just not true at all. Race is a term to divide and categorize people into groups that share similar traits. This is why even though people can share the same skin tone, they might not identify as being of same race. I know many people who have light skin tone and identify as being Native American, this is because tribe recognizes them as being a member of the tribe, and every Native Tribe has their own ways to determine Tribal Eligibility.
It's the same with Jewish people, they're apparently supposed to be brown in skin color, but yet they have many light skin Jews such as Ben Shapiro. Are they considered "White" people? I don't classify based on skin color, I classify based on identity, and I won't know unless I ask someone.
This is why I really am exasperated with Gender Identity and those that expect me to automatically assume thier gender. I can't read peoples minds, so if I notice, I'll ask. Only after asking and confirming my assumptions, will I classify a person as being however they identify.
Human psychology and behavior is very fascinating to me.
King, don't sweat about it. If you know you are not a racist, don't let anyone bring you down over a joke. A great quote I love is, "If you can't laugh at yourself."
It's true, it's true. We're so lame.