Someone I consider a friend, a mentor an uncle is now in icu battling covid complications. His name is Stan. He went in 2 weeks ago with serious breathing issues (oxygen levels down to 70%).
He got better Monday already wanting out and being stubborn like he always is. But the other day his stats dropped they had to put him into deep sleep and ventilator. Just learned earlier today he is not urinating so they are worried about kidneys. I am beside myself.
I guess I could say I have been lucky for I have only lost my grand parents (my dads, my mom lost her parents as a child) from natural causes and while we obviously grieved it is part of life. And my grandparents being in Poland while we live in Canada last 30 years, how do I say this. I loved my grandparents but they really weren't in my everyday life outside of the handful of times flying for vacations over the last 3 decades.
This hits a lot harder and closer for me and it's.. well scary, saddening and shocking. I'm crying for the whole family. I don't believe it is happening
A bit of context, his family and my family have been friends for 25 years. My youngest brother met Kathy and Karolina (twins) in grade school, being polish they got talking. They just moved in to the neighbourhood and realized they live still 2 blocks away from my parents home.(we all kids have moved out but the old farts are still in the same houses)
I remember the day they came over as a family, and we all just hit it off. Family trips, get togethers, tight through good times and bad times. His 3 daughters and son are mine and my brothers close friends. My cousin is married to one of the daughters .I am the godson to my cousins one son. My mom and dad are both still best friends with Stan and his wife Ela. So yes family.
Everytime I hear the phone message or call a dread runs through me. It hurts. I just needed to type, do something. already drove around in the country, went for walk. Poured a stiff whiskey and coke. Just sitting and fucking waiting... trying to be positive, trying to pray. Thank you if you guys read this. Thank you in advance because I know this community is some of the nicest caring people.