Been thinking recently about quarterbacks, an aspect of which I hope we can keep here instead of the P/R forum.
Anyway, I've noticed that virtually almost 100% of NFL QBs (which is the highest position one can attain in team sports) come from stable 2-person families with strong father figures. And usually conservative families. Now I realize the notion of Dad is pooh-poohed in modern society but the importance of a great Dad cannot be overstated. Anyway. I haven't noticed such a strong correlation of these factors with any other position or sport in general. So can we discuss the whys/hows without having to move the topic? I welcome your insight.
Is it as simple as strong father figure = development of leadership skills necessary for the position? What about all the other needed skills?
Assuming you're right - and I don't know if you are or not, I'll have to think about it - I come from a family in which the father is a towering figure, relatively speaking. My dad is my idol, my hero, my friend, and my mentor. From him, I have gotten three things (besides any intelligence I may have) that I value DEEPLY and which have helped me to any success I might have had: I can take direction, I can work within the parameters of someone else's scheme, but can lead while I do so. You cannot grow up under a strong father figure and succeed unless you can balance that "do it on your own" with "I have to follow someone else's lead". I think Brady is the epitome of this; the Patriots were and are Belichick's team. The players do not fart without at least tacit approval of Bill. And Tom was the epitome of a team player in that regard. Having said that, when on the field, when doing drills, when mentoring OTHER players, Tom was and is every bit the leader that Bill was and is.
If you cannot play within the system, if you don't have the discipline and ability to subvert your own ego to the group, you will never ever be a successful NFL quarterback. Having said that, if you cannot make in-the-moment decisions, if you don't have the strength and leadership to adjust on the fly and bring your teammates with you, you will never ever be a successful NFL quarterback. I have zero idea whether they have strong father figures or not, but we can list guys with good skills, even good football skills, that never won for these reasons: Marino, Rivers, Romo...