But we are not meant to be together it seems.
Oh a man can only dream....
You should watch 500 Days of Summer to get over her
Whenever these discussions crop up I find them puzzling, mostly because I'm a huge music fan (and I'm in the small number of women that define themselves by fandoms - you may have noticed that men do that more, on average) and so most of my friendships are based on my local music scene and over the internet it's based on music fandom as well.
Looking at the number of my friends on Facebook as a metric, I have 400 friends (don't add just about anyone), 80 of them have liked Dream Theater's page on Facebook, and 25 of these friends are women. I know there's probably about 5 or 6 more I know who have never been active on Facebook who also like Dream Theater, have listened to their albums, etc. I know all of them in person - those who live in my home country, that is. I have never met most of my international internet friends. Only three of them are from DTF - Deb, Gwen, Nem. If you're a woman of DTF I missed to add on Facebook, feel free to add me
If most of your friends are friends from school, and then work, and then maybe a side activity, of course you're not gonna know many music fans, and then you might not know a single woman who listened to Dream Theater. If you're active in your local scene, you've probably met more than you think. And your local scene doesn't have to be super prog friendly for that to happen - hell, Dream Theater never even had a concert in Belgrade.