I was 19 when I first had an opportunity to see Van Halen. Before that, being the first child of my parents, they were scared and wouldn't allow me to go to a concert until I was 18. So here we are, Summer 1995. I had just seen Bon Jovi and Queensryche at Jones Beach, and my friends have a ticket for Van Halen. I can't afford it. I'm working full time during the summer break from college, I can barely keep my car on the road, and I had to pass. I mean, Bon Jovi was a favorite and Queensryche was my all time favorite. This Van Halen...they're good. Dig em, but eh, I'll catch them next time.
What a big mistake, which I would repeat the next year with Rush and the Test for Echo tour (although I'd make up for that when they reunited for Vapor Trails and that tour).
It wasn't until 2004 that I had a chance, finally, to see the Van Halen that I, by then, really loved. Sammy-Ed-Alex-Mikey. I was so excited. My wife (who had seen Van Halen twice -- on the For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge tour with AiC opening, and again on the Live, Right Here, Right Now tour with Skid Row) bought us tickets, and off we went.
What a disappointment. Eddie was...not well at that point. Playing the wrong songs, just a mess. I barely have any memories of the show because, well, it was a disaster. I remember Eddie and Sammy on stage, almost fighting. I walked away from it shaking my head, with my wife saying that really isn't what Van Halen was all about.
When VH reunited with Diamond Dave, I would have went. But I was pretty pissed off that they didn't welcome Mikey back, and boycotted it out of respect for Michael. I still stand behind that decision. Nothing against Wolfie, who I think is an incredible musician and seems like an all around nice guy, but that bothered me. As the years have gone by, I'm happy for Wolf to have played with his dad and uncle. Still didn't make it right when it comes to Michael Anthony, but I...get it. Whatever reason the brothers had for excluding Mike, part of the reason was also that they wanted to play with Wolf. That sliver of the reason I understand.
Anyway, just wanted to memory-dump here. What an incredible loss. Not just for rock. Not just for music. But for humanity's art. Eddie Van Halen is up there with the greatest artists ever, and we will never forget him. Thanks Edward. For everything. Rest in peace, enjoy the jams with Jimi, Dime, and all the rest. You've certainly earned it.