The concept of dining together as a social/family thing seems to have evolved. When I was growing up, we all sat down to dinner together; mom, dad, and the kids. And we all ate the same thing: whatever mom had made for dinner.
Now, if we all happen to eat together, it just means we're eating at the same time. Mrs. Orbert may have prepared something for all, but just as often I have some leftovers from something, Son of Orbert doesn't like what mom made so he's ordered something (it will be here soon), and Daughter isn't really hungry since they ate something while she was at her friend's house an hour ago, but she'll sit down with us.
When we go out, everyone orders whatever they want, but at least we're all together at the same place. For a while, when the kids were younger and schedules were crazy, we'd just go to the food court at the mall. Everyone can grab whatever they want from any of 20+ places, but at least we all sit and eat together.
I'm not sure what my point was anymore, but I think it had to do with it just being myself and Mrs. O these days, but somehow it seems important that we at least get food from the same place. Like Mrs. ReaperKK, the idea of her getting food from somewhere else is wrong. I feel like eating xxxx, but if she's not into that, I'm fine with something else. She can pick something else. But she can't decide and it's been 20 minutes now, and I'm hungry. JUST FUCKING PICK SOMETHING!!