Plenty of people also smoke and get cancer, some don't. Plenty of people go out in winter and get the flu, some don't. Human nature is not to be bunkered up for 10 months. I feel like we have to factor this in. We can't all throw our hands up in the air and act like humanity is this callous, hopeless species because a virus is doing its thing and we're falling victim to it. We fucked up handling it early on and there's no putting the toothpaste back in the bottle. The juice is loose, if you will. You have to let people go on living their lives and hopefully the vaccines will be here sooner rather than later. That's the only hope at this point of getting past this. Believe me, I would like nothing more than for everybody to just sit inside for 6 weeks and let it all go away. But that is so unrealistic it's laughable. Remember I'm not arguing for gatherings of people, just people sitting in a tent to get a meal.
I feel like it's a societal problem, not an industry's problem.
When case counts were lower, we were going to a restaurant now and then, usually at off-times, so that it wasn't too crowded. But the fact that so many people HAVE to have a restaurant experience instead of eating at home (or at least getting takeout) boggles my mind a bit. You can still support a restaurant by ordering something from them, without having to spend 60 minutes within the vicinity of other people.
How would our society have lasted during WII - those people truly sacrificed through food and gas rationing and going without certain things because the factories switched to making war products. But now, people are throwing fits over a luxury, like being able to go out to eat. Get your takeout and stay at home, so that when my father in law has another heart attack or if his crohn's starts making him bleed liters of blood out of his rectum, there's room in the hospital for him. That's what people are forgetting. Just because we flattened the curve once, doesn't mean that we don't have to do it again.
So (and I'm not being combative, I'm just typing stream of consciousness here) going to the grocery store where literally everybody has to go, is touching everything, is acceptable and we don't shame anybody for spending time in there, but being spread out outdoors trying to patronize a restaurant is bad? This is arbitrary judgment. This is what I don't get. Why not keep everybody at home and make the grocery stores deliver, then? If we are positing that restaurants should do that in order to avoid shutting down and dying, why not apply that to the grocery stores, where nobody's complaining about people going in and out all day long?
To me, this virus is about one thing - proximity to people for a prolonged period of time. You may go to the grocery store and Person A in the cereal aisle has COVID. You pass by him, while wearing a mask, grab a box, and walk on. You're not around him, unmasked, for 60 minutes straight. There is little risk of virus transmission if you remain distant, wear a mask and don't spend time around a person.
At a restaurant, you're sitting around other people, with your masks off, throughout a meal. Mouths are opening and closing, people are talking, with droplets spreading. In the last few months, I've had waiters approach our table and suggest that we could take our masks off if we preferred, while speaking to them. Tables may not be 6 feet apart, you pass by tables while walking, encounter people in the restroom.
It's the same when I take a train and commute to work - I'm in an enclosed train car, surrounded by other people. The trains require masks and urge social distancing by not letting people sit in seats close together (luckily the ridership is down so that this works) but it's unnerving to see people with masks lowered beneath their nose, or completely off, while sitting 6 feet away, or a little less, even while I wear a mask. I've actually gotten up and switched train cars to get away from maskless people.
I don't know how i feel about restaurant shutdowns - at times, I'm comfortable going to one. Right now, there's no chance in hell I'd do indoor dining. Too many new cases in my local area. People need to learn to be flexible and give up, or reduce certain things, like going out to eat, so that we can all try to remain healthy.