I have a feeling his stance
on strangers as friends would have been
modified had he been able to hear everyone"s
heart felt comments.
I gotta believe he knew how everyone felt, that was what made him feel so uncomfortable, all the adulation, correct? But I wonder if the detachment (for lack of a better word) many of his fans felt are contributing toward the outpouring of grief. We couldn't tell him everything he has meant to us in person at meet & greets and whatnot, so we do it now through message boards, social media, etc...
Also, I lost who said it, and even what thread it was in, but someone said something like "Rush isn't my favorite band, but they are the most important in my musical development." That seems like a common theme I've been reading. How important Rush was to them, how much Rush meant to them, beyond "OMG I love their music!!!"
My wife, who knows nothing about anything when it comes to music* and doesn't follow the news at all outside of NPR in the car, said to me today "Did you hear the drummer from Rush died?" I told her I knew something about it. Just the fact that it made it to her realm of knowledge says something. I doubt she'd be aware of Charlie Watts or Ringo Starr dying.
*she knows Rush because on a road trip many years ago someone played Rush in the car for hours and she couldn't stand it.