I was trying to be funny. Like if my spouse and kid told me I looked ridiculous in something, I'd wear it just to make THEM uncomfortable.
Honestly, it would depend on how it looked on. And how you feel when you wear it. If you like how it looks and how it makes you feel, then who cares what anyone else thinks? As long it doesn't say "Members Only" on it.
I guess I don't really buy into the whole "You're too old for <insert something>" It's just fashion choices. I see what young people are wearing (nothing matches!) these days and I shake my head. But who am I to judge really? Wear what you want to wear. Own your choice. Perhaps if it works out for you, the wife and the daughter will see that you being confident wearing it makes all the difference in how they see it.