I suppose it's enough time now, but... there's another thread here for musicians you don't like because of their personal life. It's not exactly the same thing, but I thought then and think now that Kurt Cobain was a moderately talented, two-faced (not the right word, but "hypocrite" doesn't really fit either) dick who got lucky, right place right time.
He didn't want publicity - but his face was everywhere (with those ridiculous white glasses). "Oh I hate this band and I hate that band" but then tapes would come out of him playing songs from those bands. "Oh, I'm so progressive" and then he'd say something that was just the same old hate and bias but just pointed in another direction. "Oh, I'm not going to play my HITS". Please. There's a reason that - at least from this aging metalhead from Connecticut - it seemed like there was a tight knit group - from the ashes of Green River came Mudhoney and MLB and Pearl Jam, and Chris was there with Andy and Temple of the Dog, and Greg Gilmore (MLB drummer) playing on the Facelift sessions (Kinney broke his hand at the time) and Layne and McCready doing Mad Season (that almost made my list, BTW)... and yet Nirvana was nowhere to be found, and still aren't to this day.
Look, Gossard and Ament made NO BONES about wanting to be huge. Arm/Turner, and Cornell/Thayil wanted to stay pure. They all three accomplished what they wanted to accomplish (GREAT moment in the Pearl Jam 20 documentary where Gossard and Ament cop to all this and then say "at one point, we had to decide if this was OUR band anymore, or if it was Eddie's; he's a one of a kind and when a guy like that comes around, you hitch your wagon to his star. Tough pill to swallow, but you do what you have to do." Paraphrasing of course, but it's a really insightful, and honest, moment), with no apologies or regrets. Cobain? Oh, I wanted my album to sound like [name drops the coolest band he can think of]; what came out isn't what I wanted, but oh by the way, I'm not giving any of the money back or walking away from it. Then when they did the record with Albini, they went against their agreement and had REM producer Scott Litt remix it to make it more radio-friendly. Which is fine, but own it, man.
Harsh, maybe, but it's how I feel.