How big of a carbon rock are you saving up for?!?!?
Let's just say that the potential carbon rock recipient is the sole reason I'm working these hours, and it's got nothing to do with buying a ring.
While I agree with work/life balance - and fully disclose that I didn't always adhere to that in my life - I have to say, it's sometimes an ebb and flow. Meaning, the balance can't always be complete every day of the week. I know as recently as eight years ago (holy fuck... it was EIGHT years ago already) I did a year or so driving 350 miles on Sunday night/Monday morning, staying in an apartment during the week, and driving 350 miles back on Friday to see my kid. It had lasting consequences - it essentially ended my marriage - but in hindsight, the marriage was going to end one way or another, and it was something that set me up for where I am today (I've got a good gig, knock wood, and I have 12,000 posts to prove it.
). In that year, my "balance" was way out of whack. WAY out of whack.
Unless and until it interferes with normal functioning, or starts to undermine the goal you have set for yourself, then only you, Brian, can decide what's too much and when to say when.