Jay, don't get me started. I have this conversation with my kids - except my oldest, who gets it - almost weekly.
If you want a paycheck, you do what you need to do to get it. I was 42, with three degrees, and the job I was offered required me to be in Erie, PA. Problem is, I lived in Philadelphia, PA. So for a year, I drove up to Erie Sunday night, and drove back Friday night EVERY WEEK. Away from my daughter, away from my family, away from my friends. I did what I had to do. I have zero empathy for Mr. Goatee, Asperger's or not.