"I'm tired of the players and jerks. I just want a good man who will treat me right."
Nothing makes me cackle like a crazed hyena than hearing or seeing this line. It's an
admission to being attracted to "players and jerks". They're supposedly *tired* of them because that's all they've been drawn to and you can bet they still are. I am not a player per se, because there's an element of lying to being one, and I have no respect for that, but when I honestly tell women I'm not looking for a relationship,
that is when they are compelled to try and convert me. (although, I do run into some who genuinely don't want a relationship, either) This is why I tell my male friends who actually are looking for a relationship to simply keep their mouths shut early on. A woman having a man "all figured out" from the very get-go isn't a good thing. I don't care what they say. Their history speaks for itself.
As for the weight/body shaming issue, the next time a woman gives you the "beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes!!!!" angry rant, pull out a picture of John Goodman and ask her how "beautiful" he is.