Well, this thread went in a totally different direction than I thought it was going
I just came back to say that the whole "women I'm boinking" mentality didn't really last very long for me. It was confined mostly to my 20's. I met Mrs. NoseHair in 1989 when I was 25 and I haven't boinked anyone else ever since.
I was taught my womanizing skills by a real master. My old man was a genuine asshole and you know how they say the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, well, it's very true. His attitude towards women was they were there to cook, clean and provide him with sexual gratification whenever he wanted it. He was a serial cheater who even had an affair with my high school guidance counselor and even made a pass at one of my teenage girlfriends once, so it took some time for me to kind of reprogram my attitude about women. Mrs. NoseHair was very instrumental in that regard.
Today I regret my attitude back then and I regret using women the way I used them. I'd never treat a woman like that now.
I think a lot of us who are "of a certain age" came up in an era when women were expected to cook, clean, make babies and only speak when spoken to. That's how things were around my house and my old man's friends and bandmates were all womanizing, misogynistic douchebag assholes. But back then we thought they were so cool.