Damn, that's awful.
Thing is, it's actually not all that awful, it just sucks and is going to be burdensome. The only real risk is to the baby getting too big too early, and that is "easily" managed through monitoring, diet, exercise and maybe drugs. But it does bring me to a major frustration that I have (both with stuff around pregnancy & covid):
I know more about this stuff than the vast majority of people. I'm involved in design of clinical trails and interpretation of the data. I spend time trying to figure out nuances of exactly how a drug is working, to get a read on potential for unexpected effects. Lots of teasing out of causation vs. correlation. I have a decent amount of experience in the diabetes clinical space and some in infectious disease. And yet...I have a hard time finding sources for information that is reliable, meaningful, or usable. For gestational diabetes, even reputable sources (e.g. Mayo Clinic, Johns Hopkins) do a lot of spouting of the old party line about causes & prevention (which seems to revolve around shaming of expectant mothers), and don't get into enough mechanistic detail. There is also huge conflation of cause vs. correlation. It took me looking at like five different sources to piece together a proper understanding of the what and why, so I could finally convince J it wasn't her fault and there's nothing she could have done to prevent it.
It's the same thing for Covid...for example, the risk in pregnancy isn't some magical "it will hurt the baby"...rather, it can cause early labor if it's severe in the third trimester, because the baby isn't getting enough oxygen, and says "get me the fuck out of here". But again, I had to piece that together from multiple sources and apply my own understanding of physiology. So much of the medical profession is so paternalistic and so bent on providing the "safe" or "conventional wisdom" recommendations (so they don't get sued...safer to stick to the party line than to take a risk to do the right thing) that it's tough to truly understand what's going on or what makes sense. I think there's lots of good individual doctors, but some of the professional bodies are trash. And communication/messaging that is clear, honest and accurate is sorely missing. It's infuriating that I have to "do my research"* to understand what the hell is actually happening. Like, I agree with most of the recommendations, treatments and public health measures, but the communication around the what the risk is, to whom, and why is just awful.
*I don't mean youtube or FB...I mean reading the literature, looking at case reports, etc.