Sorry for being late to the party, Jen. You can't really go wrong with any of those. They all look like fine starter kits. The one advantage (or disadvantage, depending on your point of view) of the Pearl kit that you bought is that it includes a throne, which the PDP kits apparently do not. The upside is, now you don't have to buy one separately. The downside is, the one they included is probably junk and will easily bend/break if her brother and his friends borrow it to play Guitar Hero and are a bit rough with it. But since she is just starting anyway, not bad to start with a cheap one, and if she sticks with it and wants a better one down the road after she has been playing a bit, she may have a better handle at that point on what she wants.
Another note: To make it fun, she will probably want a few additional cymbals. Cymbals and stands can be very expensive and can add up quickly. Zildjian's ZBT series and Sabian's B-8 series are some good entry-level cymbals that sound decent and won't break the bank, and you can sometimes find combo packs that have a few cymbals for a bargain price (for example:
https://www.guitarcenter.com/Sabian/B8X-Performance-Pack.gc). For stands, it is usually fine to go with a pack of lower end ones, as long as they are double-braced (which most are), such as:
https://www.guitarcenter.com/PDP/700-Series-Cymbal-Boom-Stand-2-Pack.gc In terms of cymbals, everyone has their own preferences. I wouldn't worry too much about hi-hats for now. The ones that came with the kit may not sound great, but they should be passable. Crash-rides are not the greatest. They don't give that deep ping that you want from a true ride, and they don't quite give that great explosion and decay you want in a true crash. I would try to find her a good ride and an inexpensive 16" crash. I found a Sabian B-8 ride used on craigslist that I love (new:
https://www.guitarcenter.com/Sabian/B8-Series-Ride-Cymbal.gc). That will easily be enough to get started. If you can only do one of the above right now for budget reasons, I would go with a good ride cymbal for now, and she can use the existing crash-ride as her main crash. It may not sound great, but at least she can get the feel and basic sound as she gets comfortable playing. The other reason to get a separate ride cymbal is that players generally position their crashes and rides very differently from one another, usually with the ride down lower on the right side (I have mine VERY low on a similar 5-piece kit, just to the right of the right-most rack tom and just above the floor tom) and the main crash(es) higher and directly in front. Others may have different recommendations on cymbals and may insist that mine are dead wrong.
Like I said, every player has different preferences, and many insist that their preference is the best. I am not going to say the examples I gave you above are THE way to go. But they are solid suggestions.
Back to the stands and such for a moment. In case it hasn't yet occurred to you, the cool thing with drums is that it can be a fun, never-ending journey to add pieces and reconfigure. A drum kit is infinitely (within reason) expandable and customizable. BUT that also means that with each piece you add, you also need to add separate hardware, which is separate and is also expensive. New cymbal? You need a separate stand or arm to mount it. Cowbell? You need an arm and/or bracket. And on and on. So there are additional costs associated that beginners often don't account for.
Hope that helps.