It's ridiculous it even has to get to that point.
So my sister-in-law and her husband bought a new single family home after only living in their townhouse for 3 years. They barely have any equity in the townhouse and haven't sold it yet, so they are carrying two mortgages and the house they bought, while very large and nice, requires some work. They are maxing out credit cards to do what they need to do (not doing into debt, they are paying them off) and are spending so much they may as well be broke, yet they criticize us for not yet pulling the trigger on buying a new house and moving. We've been in our house for 10 years, there is wear and tear we need to "undo" to bring it up to sale level, and there are a lot more things involved than just going for it, and they don't seem to get that. "Well, we did it, why can't you?" Ugh.