Probably have to go to my dad's house to clean stuff out of my old room. After 10 years of not even opening the door to my and my sister's rooms, he suddenly threatened us that he will be emptying our rooms of our belongings to trash on Jan 1st. This after years of telling us our rooms will always be ours to keep. He now claims everything in the house is his and he only lets us have our own belongings because "he loves us."
He has already thrown out, without warning, many personal heirlooms and possessions claiming he decided it was time. He has irreparably damaged any remaining trust he garnered from my sister, and is about to purge himself of any remaining codnnection to what's left of his family. There was apparently a huge fight between him and my sister when she went to look over her things because he threw out my grandmother's 100 year old China that my sister explicitly said she wanted kept, then blamed my sister for it because she didn't come to get it sooner.
It's ugly and depressing and I just want it done, but I also really don't want to deal with it.