Well my day just took a turn for the sad...
I had a friend when I was much younger who worked at a pool hall I went to. He took me to my first Rush show. He was a lot older than I am but he became a family friend and we hung out a lot. I grew up, stopped going to the pool hall, and we didn't see each other for a while, though I did find him on Facebook a while ago. He had moved to Arizona. We talked a bit and caught up.
Hadn't heard from him in a while, and as I was sitting here listening to Rush, a random thought occurred to me to check his Facebook page.
He died a year ago yesterday. I don't know what from, I never knew he was gone. He posted a comment to a post two days before he passed and then the comments on the post turned to remembering him and how he had been fighting something. I suppose that could mean cancer, but I suppose it could mean anything else as well. I googled his obituary and found it: March 15, 2015. Doesn't give a cause, though.
I'm stunned speechless. May not have been overly close in recent years but it's a large portion of my life that I did see him a lot and I feel like I somehow should have known he was gone. Also somewhat eerie how I thought to check so close to his death anniversary.
Just word vomiting now, I guess. I feel a pang of loss now and I wasn't expecting it.