On the matter of the previous generation.... Follow the science as Stads would remind us
Kids these days: Why the youth of today seem lacking
what is particularly notable is the degree to which people’s belief that children are in decline was larger for people who excelled on the trait in question. This latter finding suggests the involvement of a person-specific self-comparison process whereby individuals compare themselves to today’s youth and find them especially lacking on those domains on which they themselves excel. This account, however, leaves open the question of why people fail to similarly denigrate the youth of the past. One possibility is biased memory; people routinely project their current selves onto their past selves (7)—such a memory bias may generalize to children of one’s own generation.
I'm not sure that jives with me though; maybe I'm selling myself short here, but if I was to guess, my golden ticket, if I have one, is my intellect and my memory. That's not uncommon these days. But I think as our society gets "easier" - I don't mean in terms of success, I mean in terms of day to day; I don't have to get out of my chair anymore to turn the lights on, turn on my pellet stove, or adjust the TV - we're losing some of the essence of what got us here. I think "entitlement" is the right word. I don't recall growing up with any expectations. Hopes, dreams, goals, yes, but expectations? Entitlements? Nope.
We had a freak October snow storm about ten years ago, up here in Connecticut. Power was out for some people for upwards of 10 or 12 days. "Survival" even then wasn't about keeping hearts beating, it was about "replacing what we had". Generators. Companies (you know, those EVIL corporations!) opening their fitness centers so people could shower and charge their phones. That's not survival.
I get it; I know we want to be better than we were yesterday, and we should. No question. But we can't lose perspective doing it. But I can't help seeing a lot of what gets complained about and what passes for "adversity" today and thinking "man, if the worst thing that ever happens to you is you get called "homo", or your disrespected because of your hair - hair YOU chose to wear - or you're called "fat" because, well, you are, in the grand cosmos of adversity, you're on the plus side.