While And Justice For All was the last album I truly loved by them, I will admit that I have a soft spot for Load. I know Load/ReLoad gets a lot of hate, mainly by fans claiming the band "sold out". What I appreciate about Load is that Metallica followed their own music ambitions and went out of their usual box to create something different. I don't see it as selling out, because it's not like Metallica was a small band before. If you look at their success and popularity coming off of Ride the Lightning, Master of Puppets, And Justice, and most recently the Black Album, it's not like they had little popularity and needed a big break. So I have much admiration for Load, because the band did what they wanted to do themselves, even if it meant risking some outcry among the fans.
On the opposite of that, for the same reasons, I can't stand Death Magnetic. In my opinion it just feels fake, and it really just felt like the band took a step back, said "what do the fans want from us?" and then made an album. I know fans of their original style who might have been bored with the albums after Black Album were hyped, and I suppose if you don't really care about the heart or intent behind an album, all that remains is the sound. Even St. Anger felt more genuine to me. It's not a great album at all, but after watching the documentary and hearing the album, you could tell what they were going for, even if they missed the mark. Quality and admiration are two different things. Metallica made a safe album in the style that most people like them for, and so naturally it is going to appeal to a lot of fans right off the bat. While that's the Metallica sound I like myself, I just felt like the band did it for the wrong reasons. You do your albums for yourself and live shows for the fans.