Speaking of Load and Reload - as I said before, I like the former much better than the latter. Up through Bleeding Me, Load is chock full of great songs. I might still prefer listening to older Metallica, but those tunes are full of energy and cool melodies/riffs. Starting with Cure there is certainly a drop in quality, but Wasting My Hate, Thorn Within and Outlaw Torn are very good, and I don't dislike Mama Said.
Reload might be overall heavier but, as I see it, not as energetic. The more aggressive songs, except for Fuel (which is a fun opener), are kind of "there" and not very inspired, and a lot of it is a bit plodding.