So I've been trying to find nice ladies via different apps like Tinder, MeetMe, OkCupid, Happn and others I don't use anymore. And haven't had much luck so far - or maybe I've had and don't realise it
Tinder... Found this nice girl who plays cello and it's a big reader (yes and YES for me), and is studying literature, so I thought telling her I disliked 1984 would spark some interesting conversation. Hasn't replied yet. Oh! And this one today - she actually messaged me first (!), but in French, fuck. Thought she was a tourist, and tried a bit of English, only to reveal me later that she spoke Spanish and was born in France but has been living here since a child
I quite liked her, but I've gotta admit I struggled to keep the conversation moving, and I'm afraid I also looked a bit arrogant/selfish. Noticed how she started losing interest since I was driving mostof tthe conversation, and now she hasntt replied my last message, even though it's basically bait - she told me she loved coffe, I said I hated it
OkCupid is an awesome site that'd be better if it had more people from my city or state to start with - I've only found a nice pansexual genderqueer girl (...ok), who likes reading and series (yay), we have a good match, around 70% (YAY), but she actually identifies as a he (well, FUCK). And this other strange girl with no pic that sent me a message, but hasn't connected since then wtf.
MeetMe... Strange app. I only made like 3-4 matches on tinder, but with this one, around 25 what the hell
Sadly, 2/3 of them are from other states, so I just ignore them (I don't believe in distant relationships), and have found some interesting ones... But I have yet to contact them. It's just that my conversation skills suck, and I tend to overthink what I write - it doesn't help either that some of them have barely any info about themselves posted.
So these have been my little adventures, nothing too special tbh - I just had to express it somewhere. I still have hopes of finding interesting girls and going on a date in the not-so-distant future.