So the girl I just ended things with ended up chatting with me yesterday in a friendly way, we both bought tickets for Epica in January and are going to go together as friends. I really couldn't be any happier how this turned out for us. I don't think I've ever had sex with someone and dated them and then turned around and was able to just be friends. This girl is definitely cool enough that I think it might be possible and since I really do like her as a person and we have so much in common, I am just very happy to be able to still be friends.
Well as for actual dating, I met a girl from tinder over the weekend. She lives in Brooklyn so it's not going to be easy to see each other, but I had a lot of fun. Just met to grab a drink, but the place started getting really loud as it got later and we decided to leave and went back to my place. We smoked some of the green stuff together and watched tv. Just had a lot of fun with her, she is very funny and we clicked. I put my arm around her as we watched TV and we kissed as the night ended, I almost never kiss on first dates. Not a make out, but a couple kisses on the lips. It was nice, we've been talking a lot and will try to meet up next week after Christmas.
There is another tinder girl I've been chatting with, got a date with her on Wednesday. She seems very down to earth and has a sense of humor, but otherwise our chats haven't been consistent so I guess I will find out what she is like when we meet.
So I will add this, I changed my tinder picture to something less serious (it was just a smiling face shot) and to a shot of me from Vegas that I shared in the pic thread. Well I guess the females like that a lot better as all of the sudden I've gotten more hits and also from more attractive girls lol. The girl from this weekend, the girl for Wednesday, and another one I've been chatting with are all more attractive than the girls I have been dating over the course of the last year. I have not had an issue with anyone's looks or anything, this point was just to show how crazy it is and how much your picture matters. I am so unphotogenic too, makes me thing about what could happen if I was better at taking pictures.