Awesome... so I've been seeing the same girl for over a month now, but things have gotten pretty stale from my view. She's a great girl in many ways and we haven't had any issues at all with getting along... but something is missing. I just don't feel it. I took her out for a nice dinner two weekends ago and when we sat at the table our convo was just very blah. I dont know her well enough that we can't find things to talk about, but it just felt so dead. So the week and weekend go by and we talk, but I significantly slowed down on texting and didn't offer to hang out at all, she offered but I couldn't that day. So we ended up going to the 311 concert last Saturday, I had two tickets since like March but none of my friends could make it so back a few weeks ago I had offered for her to come so we went and once again, nothing was wrong with her, but things just seemed dull between us. The concert was awesome and I had a good time, but when we got back to my place I told her I was tired and probably going to bed so she left, but that was honestly a lie. I just didn't want to spend the rest of the night feeling like the way I felt at our dinner. I actually wanted to tell her I thought this was going no where, but her Aunt had died a couple days before the concert and I didn't want to bring it up, she was also saying how she was so excited, so I didn't want to let her down. Since then, she has posted numerous things on Facebook and IG about how she had so much fun with a great guy and all and it just makes me feel even worse that I don't share those same feelings. I know what I need to do and I need to do it sooner than later, but it's not going to be easy. Another factor that makes me feel bad is she is new to the area and doesn't really have friends here.