I know it's bordering on sexism (or homosexism or whatever you call it), or is probably over the line actually, but yeah, that's pretty much it. To most people, especially in rock and roll, guys should act like guys. Freddie was a fucking stud. Rob Halford is a fucking stud. What they did behind closed doors, and with whom, didn't much matter as long as they rocked out and were macho onstage. The Pet Shop Boys are effeminate and, right or wrong, some people have trouble with that.