My understanding is that AP didn't know the kid was his, or just found out, but kinda wasn't going to be a big part of its life (other than financially). The woman is with another man, too. And then something like this happens.
Kinda glad to hear that. I had put a huge chunk of responsibility for this on AP, and this would absolve him for a lot of it.
Wow, I can't imagine the type of rage that would flow through my veins if I heard of some dude laying his hands on my child.
You wouldn't have let your baby-mama move your kid in with somebody who had already beaten the shit out of other kids.
I'll admit I know little about this case....just enough to know this guy beat a two year old to death, but EB are you saying you've read/seen that guy has a history of this?
He allegedly beat up a former GF, who said she spanked her kid so hard it left welts. Due to the he said/she said nature of these sorts of things, it was adjudicated pretty lightly. In this case, it appears that the injuries are the result of a good shaking, rather than a pummeling. My guess is that the guy was too stupid to know that shaking people that young causes brain damage. This makes him more of a dumbass than a vicious monster, IMO.
My point remains, though. A responsible parent would have checked into things and not let their baby-mama move a kid in with the guy. Particularly a parent with AP's resources. If he didn't actually know it was his kid, then he gets something of a pass on this one. So now we're just talking about a guy with at least 3 kids, one of whom he didn't even know about, never married, and not having much to do with them. Can't say that I'm particularly sympathetic to him, and frankly, he's the smallest part of this story. Yet, were it not for his name, none of us would even be talking about this.