Now now, guys...for every popularly well-received songs, there's at LEAST one person who dislikes/hates it. Conversely, for every song that isn't so well-received, there's at LEAST one person who enjoys it. Yes, I am sure there's one person out there who enjoys "You Not Me" (I mean the album version, not the better "You Or Me" version from the Hollow Years single).
However, expressing said opinions can be done in a tactful and reasonable manner, with full explanations as to why said song isn't like, and without discrediting the band or members themselves. Remember, if a song that is so well loved isn't something YOU like, chances are the song didn't do anything wrong, it's just YOU that doesn't like it. And if YOU don't like, it YOU don't have to listen to it, right? No one holds guns to our heads and forces us to listen to every new DT album, every song, every time, straight-through with no stopping. In the age of digital music, we can edit songs, take tracks out, etc. etc. to make our own playlists and CD-rs of music that WE like. We're all entitled to our OWN personal mixes and opinions, but let's be nice about it, to each other, to the band and its members, and really, to everyone involved. We're all here to enjoy Dream Theater music, and I'm sure Dream Theater want us to enjoy it too!
-Marc.