Yeah, I hate to say it, but I would only see an online degree valid as a supplementation to an existing degree. So, say you're a Bachelor in EE and decided to take a few online classes in Robotics. That's totally valid. But as your main degree, I would almost say that could rather work against you more than in your favor.
I understand your point, but if I did it through a legitimate brick and mortar school, it doesn't seem like that would be a problem. It's the same degree from a respected university.
Yes, this is true. For example, the online courses I took were through the University of Minnesota. Had I finished my degree through these online courses, I would have had a diploma from the University of Minnesota and no one would know that they were online courses unless they requested a copy of my transcript. I don't know how many of these schools offer complete degrees or high level courses online though. I took some general level courses to fulfill prerequisites.
I've been looking around, and there are actually quite a few that offer full programs. Some seem a little sketchy, but there are plenty of major universities as well. Penn State, for example, is one that happens to be in my general region.
I think u got to what others mentioned. U can do online classes, just make sure they are from a traditional locale (main campus) that is non-profit. DeVry, Everest, ITT, U of Phoenix and etc are not traditional colleges. Any quick search on prospective unis will let u know what kind they are. And don't think u cannot have time for an in person class here and there; u'd be surprised how much more motivated u can be when u have a limited amount of time.
Regarding ur question about the experience, online classes from traditional unis are set up to make u work as much as in person. So if u have a four credit hour class(in person), expect to spend that much time on discussion boards online, responding to other students and/or in a chat. This is separate of reading material, papers, tests and assignments that would be in person; this stays the same whether online or in person.
IMO, the best class is a hybrid class. Meeting half time in person, half online allows for students to be more perpared and eager to ask questions in person. We have all had *that class(es)* where u can hear crickets with regard to participation.
There are plenty of traditional unis offering online options though, so u should be fine finding one Pogoowner. My grad school was on the cusp near the end of my time of launching an all online Bachelors in my field (psych/social work/sociology), which is interesting considering they are social sciences.