Another random thought that I struggle with and since we are getting real, I'll put it out there. Could go in the work thread but it doesn't really matter to be fair.
Tom's post yesterday was ironic as I was having a down day myself. I look at myself and seriously don't understand why I can't man up. I'm talking about my job. My job has been my life and basically what I do for 15 years. It's been pretty ordinary for a while and the last 6 months especially have been very challenging. I'm so over it it's not funny. I'm stale, unmotivated and just couldn't give two fucks anymore and a job and places I put so much work and so much love into, I just hate it all now. Everything over the last year probably doesn't help but I know my time is up.
However, I'm so fucking comfortable and scared of taking that leap of faith and walking away and looking for something else. I'm miserable and get no value or purpose out of what I do anymore and I'm just wasting my time. I don't want to do that anymore, but I'm frightened as fuck to let go and have to start over. I'm so established and I'd rather put myself through torment than face the unknown of something new. Plus, it's all I know, so not working, I'd be lost, I know that.
I'm not sure what it is, but yesterday after a new two week roster comes out and again, people come back saying they can't do certain shifts, I'd just had enough. I need to do something. After a brutal season (which still has a few weeks to go) I will take a week or two off and re-evaluate. After years and years, I think I've actually hit burnout. I hate to admit it, but I think it's true. Over the last six months, I've had probably 15 days off in that time, and half the time those days still have interruptions from work. I literally tell myself I'm a machine and keep going. Again, this week I'm doing 7 days as staff just go away at the drop of a hat. All casual too, nothing I can do. No one gives a fuck, so why have I given a fuck about my staff for so many years? They know what I do for them and are a great team for the most part, but I'm sick of doing everything for others and hurting myself. I'm the one getting taken advantage of, and for what?
Plus with management and their complete lack of care, value and respect for me, not to mention the target I have on my back, I'm seriously thinking of dropping all my holidays and long service at the start of next summer as a big 'fuck you' and leave them in the shit. Spend a year off and look for something new. As hard as it would be, change has to come at some point. But the thought of doing that scares me, and I'm frightened I'll never take those steps to do what I have to do. I'm still on this earth for something, but it's not to waste my days going through torment and going through the motions.
Sorry for the rant.