I used to drink a lot of hard liquor, and I've been told I'm perfectly pleasant to be around, if not more open, relaxed and funny, even if I was stumbling all over the place; which I can understand given that I am extremely shy and quiet unless I'm around people I know well (or am shrouded in anonymity...clearly). But as the old saying goes, and as my father has lovingly bludgeoned into my head since a child, "EVERYTHING in moderation". That said, I can't remember the last time I've gotten inebriated to the point where I'd be seen as 'drunk'. I'll get a good buzz off of wine tastings, maybe take home a bottle every now and then and get a little tipsy, but the days of partying and losing myself are no longer appealing to me. Now, every once in a while if I've had a horrible week, overly stressful day at work or just feel like doing a whole lot of nothing, I might get drunk; even then, it'd be with a few select friends who I'm comfortable to be in that state with and I've learned (the hard way) not to push myself over the edge just for the sake of enjoying the free-fall.
Drinking alcohol in itself is not wrong, it doesn't make you a bad person, and it certainly isn't 'stupid' if the way one goes about it is controlled. Stupid is not giving a shit enough to chug until you spew all of it back out and the next morning you have no recollection of any of it and/or continuing this process until you destroy your life.
P.S. Yes, still love scotch, though it's been a while since I've had any. I'd love a taste after this week is done with though. Working restaurants though is tough considering my only days off the past few weeks have been Monday/Tuesday, so it's kinda hard to chill with friends on those days when they're off and I'm working and when I'm off, they're working. /foreverascone