So, I have this friend, and the guy raises questions in my mind. The group of friends I'm in, we're basically his only real colleagues. I mean, he sometimes hangs out with other people, but they don't seem to care too much for him. I won't lie, I feel pity for the guy, which is a big part in why I hang out with him. He gets bullied a lot. There was this group o guys in German class who would always pick on him, usually in ways that would make him look gay. A couple weeks back, they even went and attacked him and put the kid in a gay-looking position whilst doing so. This keeps on happening because this guy gets way pissy and reactive when provoked, which the other guys think is funny. The group I
with, we're actually nice to the dude and let him hang with us. However, he is paranoid and even gets really upset when we, like, playfully rib on him. On occasion he gets really moody and is all, "Why do you guys hate me?" and "Why did you guys ditch me?", when neither of those are the case. On Friday night, our group went out and hung for a few hours, followed by a movie. The guy was only able to make the movie, but didn't make this clear until the last second. He ended up upset at us for having fun without him, even though we were quite happy for him to accompany us to the film, and had invited him to hang with us for the evening before it.
I'm guessing a big part of the issue with the dude is he's just slow to becoming mature, maybe sheltered as well. He acts a lot like a kid. His sense of humor is pretty kiddish, being mostly squeaky clean and often surfacing in random off-topic bursts. He can sometimes be annoying and doesn't realize it. Our group (myself included) get annoyed sometimes and occasion try to make this clear, but he forgets pretty quickly. Same goes for when I try to talk to him about dealing with bullies. (His problems with them remind me of similar experiences from back in elementary school.)
So, your thoughts on this sort of situation?
Am I a dick for thinking so much about this guy's personal life and talking about it on this here forum?