Typed Sirenia into the search box, and this old thread popped up. Turns out Adace recommended them to me and I said this:
Sirenia (female-fronted symphonic metal) "Heard of 'em, will look into"
Well, I had heard of them, but I heard they were the beauty and the beast type band. I also only just now got around to checking them out lol, but Nine Destinies and a Downfall is great. Minimal growls, and they don't bother me. Unfortunately they don't have the same singer anymore, but the new chick sounds pretty good. Gonna give the next album a shot tonight.
I'm still looking for new stuff (who isn't) and my current pursuit is stuff like this Sirenia album. Pop metal "gothic" style with non operatic female vocals. Kinda like Amaranthe, but without growls.
Thanks again for those who suggested me stuff a year ago.... Damn, time flies.