How do you stop a woman from bullying you?

[Super Dude]

On a sidenote, we need an AndyDT subforum.

Yes.

[jcmistat]

Shove your tits in her face. That should shudderup.

Nothing like a good laugh before bed.

[AndyDT]

Andy, the question should be "how to prevent a woman from bullying you in the 1st place."  If it needs to be stopped then it's gone too far already. 

Tick has a good point, I know because I am very similar in nature, but tend to find myself attracted to aggressive woman.  For me, I need to find one that's aggressive in a positive way, instead of one who is aggressive out of insecurity.

If you're uncomfortable with the way women are treating you, say so. You're a man. You can say what you want.

If they still don't honor your requests, there's no reason to spend time with these people.

Prayer, Counsel in your faith community, Matthew 6:33, Proverbs, Don't hold on to offenses, Pray for them.

Thank you for that. I'm absolutely and defnitively doing these things or will work on them harder particularly not holding onto offences (which I understand to mean mentally releasing rather than not taking action, setting boundaries etc).

[Chino]

Here you go, Andy. Some words of wisdom.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEmL8ITrg38

[senecadawg2]

Maybe this thread will help:

https://www.dreamtheaterforums.org/boards/index.php?topic=32010.0

My favorite response     

Also, about the AndyDT subforum... YES!

[VioletS16]

I'm not religious, but tell her to knock it off. If she's making you feel bad, just say so. But she's not going to listen to you if you insult, hurt, or yell at her. "Hell hath seen no fury like a woman scorned" and it's true.

[Phoenix87x]

How do you stop a woman from bullying you?

    Well, here's a tip,

GIFSoup

[King Postwhore]

How do you stop a girl from bullying you.  Conk her on the head.


Serious answer,  Andy,  it seems to me that you are passive in relationships, so the are trying two things,

1. Get a rise out of you
2.  Trying to motivate you

But if these girls are not right for you,   (and that's true for many people looking for relationships)  Opt out.  Tell them in the kindest way that you are not interested.

[senecadawg2]

Ironically, I just found this picture of Andy online...

[hefdaddy42]

[senecadawg2]

 

[wolfandwolfandwolf]

Best thread?

best thread.

[Silver Tears]

Ironically, I just found this picture of Andy online...

My god he's hot.

[wolfking]

For whatever reason some, and only some, women seem to think I'm a pushover or maybe they're bullies anyway. It gets to the point that they don't respect your "no" and use criticism or manipulation to get around it or bring you down. My answer is to tighten up my standards and values even more, to try to put their behaviour into view. I also was reading 2 Corinthians where Paul says "when I'm weak then I am strong" and talks about "boasting in my weakness". In other words, total honesty and congruence, reducing himself to zero to find truth (as Gandhi said 2000 years later).

Any comments from Christians or serious advice from anybody else?

It's great you always come to us for advice Andy.  Here's my contribution to your delimma and what you should do;

[theseoafs]

It's humorous to me how unhelpful this thread became as soon as it was switched to GD.

Imagine what Andy's other threads would look like had they been switched as well.

[7StringedBeast]

Maybe this thread will help:

https://www.dreamtheaterforums.org/boards/index.php?topic=32010.0

Just noticed your avatar.  Love it!

[Dr. DTVT]

It's humorous to me how unhelpful this thread became as soon as it was switched to GD.

Imagine what Andy's other threads would look like had they been switched as well.

The location isn't the key, it's just that more people are willing to chime in outside of P/R, which is probably the big reason Andy posts non P/R topics in P/R anyway, it's like keeping it in the family.

[senecadawg2]

Ironically, I just found this picture of Andy online...

My god he's hot.

Aye. I feel perfectly secure in my sexual orientation of being straight, yet still find myself oddly attracted to him. Yet unfortunately, he has no self-esteem and is constantly being bullied by women.

[wolfking]

Seriously, who is that guy?

[True Death of Life]

Seriously, who is that guy?

[Super Dude]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9V9v2IRYqpU

[wolfking]

Never got into that show.

[VioletS16]

Sawyer from Lost, oh gawd  my grandmother has a SERIOUS crush on him, to the point where she stuck pictures of him all over her work place and set him as her desktop background on her PC. She has a picture of him in a picture frame, like he's her son or something, and even has an action figure of him.  Never have found him very attractive though.

[Silver Tears]

Ahahaha that sounds like a pretty big crush  Yeah he's not my usual type but I most definitely wouldn't say no.

[MetalJunkie]

Seriously, who is that guy?

He played Sawyer in Lost. He was also in Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocol.

[lonestar]

Ahahaha that sounds like a pretty big crush  Yeah he's not my usual type but I most definitely wouldn't say no.

You can say no?

[Silver Tears]

Well not to you

[lonestar]

Not many can. 

[King Postwhore]

To quote a DT reference.,

Chunk and Balls.  That's my answer.

[senecadawg2]

Sawyer.